highlight the historical illegality of intergender matches in many U.S. states and question why and how they have recently become legal and more common in professional circuits. First-Hand Forum Accounts
A match typically held for demonstration purposes rather than as part of a formal tournament ranking. mixed wrestling forum
A significant portion of the male user base is drawn to "competitive feminism"—the desire to be physically dominated by a woman. Forums provide a vocabulary for this ("fantasy defeat," "surrender," "scissors crush") without judgment. This often makes forums a target for critics who see it as reinforcing gender stereotypes, or for mainstream BJJ practitioners who find the erotic subtext "creepy." mixed wrestling forum