You are not in love with them. You are in love with the idea of them if they were kind, attentive, and respectful. They are not that person. Date the reality, not the potential.
Then, 24 hours later? They post a couple story holding his hand with the caption “Blessed.” You are not in love with them
The term isn't just for romantic partners. It has bled into every social transaction. Date the reality, not the potential
Everyone's vaping now. Or posting thirst traps on TikTok. Or skipping class to go to the mall. If you don't follow, you're called "kepoh" or "baik sangat." But if you do follow, you might get caught and your parents get called to sekolah. So you're stuck in the middle — not cool enough for the rebels, not rajin enough for the genius kids. It has bled into every social transaction
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